cxl/port: Rename CXL_DECODER_{EXPANDER, ACCELERATOR} => {HOSTONLYMEM, DEVMEM}

cxl/port: Rename CXL_DECODER_{EXPANDER, ACCELERATOR} => {HOSTONLYMEM, DEVMEM}

In preparation for support for HDM-D and HDM-DB configuration
(device-memory, and device-memory with back-invalidate). Rename the current
type designators to use HOSTONLYMEM and DEVMEM as a suffix.

HDM-DB can be supported by devices that are not accelerators, so DEVMEM is
a more generic term for that case.

Fixup one location where this type value was open coded.

Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/168679261369.3436160.7042443847605280593.stgit@dwillia2-xfh.jf.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>