netfilter: make nftables drops visible in net dropmonitor

netfilter: make nftables drops visible in net dropmonitor

net_dropmonitor blames core.c:nf_hook_slow.
Add NF_DROP_REASON() helper and use it in nft_do_chain().

The helper releases the skb, so exact drop location becomes
available. Calling code will observe the NF_STOLEN verdict
instead.

Adjust nf_hook_slow so we can embed an erro value wih
NF_STOLEN verdicts, just like we do for NF_DROP.

After this, drop in nftables can be pinpointed to a drop due
to a rule or the chain policy.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>