tcp: Fix NEW_SYN_RECV handling in inet_twsk_purge()

tcp: Fix NEW_SYN_RECV handling in inet_twsk_purge()

inet_twsk_purge() uses rcu to find TIME_WAIT and NEW_SYN_RECV
objects to purge.

These objects use SLAB_TYPESAFE_BY_RCU semantic and need special
care. We need to use refcount_inc_not_zero(&sk->sk_refcnt).

Reuse the existing correct logic I wrote for TIME_WAIT,
because both structures have common locations for
sk_state, sk_family, and netns pointer.

If after the refcount_inc_not_zero() the object fields longer match
the keys, use sock_gen_put(sk) to release the refcount.

Then we can call inet_twsk_deschedule_put() for TIME_WAIT,
inet_csk_reqsk_queue_drop_and_put() for NEW_SYN_RECV sockets,
with BH disabled.

Then we need to restart the loop because we had drop rcu_read_lock().

Fixes: 740ea3c4a0b2 ("tcp: Clean up kernel listener's reqsk in inet_twsk_purge()")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/CANn89iLvFuuihCtt9PME2uS1WJATnf5fKjDToa1WzVnRzHnPfg@mail.gmail.com/T/#u
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240308200122.64357-2-kuniyu@amazon.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>